LEAVE NO MAN BEHIND

LEAVE NO MAN BEHIND

Hello and welcome to a strange new world. You have traveled far through the desert, only to be met time and again by one empty oasis after another. You are lost and alone, wandering, wondering if someone, anyone, knows how you feel. And just when you think you can't go on, and no one could possibly understand your struggle, a hand reaches out to you, lifts you to your feet, and carries you to the promised land. He feeds you knowledge, shelters you from the self-righteous (and the ridiculous), and provides you with the tools you need to survive in this brave new world. You are a stranger in a strange land, but you are not alone. Let him be your guide. Follow closely as you travel together on this adventure of a lifetime. For now, you are a foreigner to "Fatherhood" but soon YOU will be the master of this realm.

"No Man is Expendable!"

This is Fodder 4 Fathers...


FODDER OF THE WEEK: DOULAS 4 DADS? IS THERE ROOM FOR A "DUDELA" IN THE DELIVERY ROOM

Photo From "Meet The Fockers" (2004)
If you've never found yourself requiring the services of one, and have no clue why one might have come in handy during the birth of your child, you may be one of those guys who has no clue what a Doula is. But, how do you know what you need if you don't know what's out there?

YOU'RE NEVER TOO OLD TO GET IN THE GAME: WHY OLDER "NEW" DADS JUST SEEM TO BE NATURALS

Photo Courtesy of "The Natural" (1984)

"Kids of older dads are often happier, and more socially attuned because their fathers are more involved in their lives.” - Dr. Sherman Silber
 

There's something to be said about becoming a first-time father late in the game of life. Older "New" Dads seem to be more patient, more present, and more willing to be team players. We've been around the block, and we're realistic about our goals. But does being "long in the tooth" prevent us from being the men (dads) we always dreamed we would be? Not from where I stand.